Emotions>Desires>Weaknesses?
Recently I got to know a new online friend, I find her totally different from those online friends I've met so far. The thing that fascinates me the most is her behavior. She can give into her emotions so fast so easily that it looks unreal. What I'm trying to say is that she can suddenly turn from good mood to monstrous mood within split seconds even in front of a stranger (WOW! I was like "WTH!" in the beginning when I first notice this). Usually for a person to unleash his/her temper onto a victim, it depends on the degree of intimacy with the victim. Most people just can't go wild in front of a stranger, it takes time. That's why you realise some people who are very fierce at home are harmlessly kind in the public (like my mom). That explains why couples can argue so much because of the degree of intimacy in existence (built up over a long period of time). This friend of mine totally bypass this criteria.
So far I have yet to see anyone that is capable of doing that. However, even though I could be fascinated, I never wanted myself to become like that. Throughout my years, I've learnt something. I've learnt that giving into emotions isn't beneficial at all. Instead of letting emotions control me, I want to control my own emotions. Why? Because emotions will only lead us to desires and desires will open up the weaknesses in us. For example, a warrior could be so perfect in all ways, swordsmanship, archery and so on making him invincible, but if his enemy were to threaten him with his family's life, what do you think will happen?
I don't know why I am saying all this. Maybe I'm just afraid of giving into my emotions, maybe I'm just afraid of being out of control and maybe I'm just afraid of becoming someone I don't even know. That's why I chose to throw away some unnecessary emotions and become a laidback person.
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but but hurley...females are very emotional, sensitive and delicate creatures (that's why guys fall in love with us if not they would be baking manly energy cakes together)
note: manly energy cake making is patented by thomas!
and sometimes hormones makes us girls crazy too it's call the PMS syndrome and we can apply MC NGEK NGEK NGEEEEEk..
aiyoyo, hur, you sounded like you are approaching menopause lah (note to female readers - this is not sexist remarks, as men too have menopause, albeit milder and rarer)
what makes living things different is the emotion. if you don't have emotion, then you are no more human.
funny thing is, human, when they click, they will accept the good as well as the bad, though more difficult on the bad. always learn to forget and forgive. another trick i learned, "see no evil, hear no evil, talk no evil"
p.s - initially i thought you were talking about +size too, could it be??? :))
thomas
turns into hulk
May be a split personality one psychotic while the other one is more psychotic! 0_o
The problem is some people are so passionate about some things that they argue long before they think, putting their brain in park and there mouth in gear. And some people like a woman like that who is unpredictable, more passionate, more sexually aggressive!
And for your emotions learn to use them to your advantage, a person who shows no emotions is a person who appears empty inside, and a bit of a cold fish!
By the way who is the girl? Part of me wants to flirt with her the other is set on self preservation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
for non-msians:
the more fierce she is, the sexier she is??
that just solves the ultimate girl question of "why do men like B****S" (no offense)
thomas: hmm..maybe I should use the term "negative emotions" instead
Jamie: trust me...flirting with a hulk is stressing. =P
Well Hurley if at the end of the day your dick is still attached it was a good day, but if she rips it off then you’ll have to save your legs and take a walk on the wild side!
Plusizekitten, its like this why do girls like bad boys or ass holes!? Dated scary girls before fun but afraid to go to sleep its always fun for a while but in the end some times PLAIN is the way to go
good guys & girls = must be really bad in bed
hurley, bkful of the tigeressss
wah +size, i tak kutuk you, you kutuk me ya. now the gloves comes off, meow!!!
anyway, bad girls / bad boys = good gf / good bf
good girls / good boys = good wife / good husband
so, depends on what you seek lor, good time or good family :P
reminds me of a joke : good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere.
Actually its good girls attracted to bad boys and good boys attracted to bad girls both the good girl/boy thinks they can change or tame there wild counter part!
But don’t always judge good for being bad in bed, some of them would do things that you may need to have a medical before trying!
ARE YOU HAVING FUN "Hurley"?
Hurley wants Harley lahh.. broom broom*
For the long night and take Jaime's advice ok. Viagra works..
+size good girl??? then i am an angel already....
hurley so young already need viagra? tsk tsk tsk...
+size is looks like good gurl only, but want an "all night long" session, like jamie says, good gurl not necessarily bad in bed, prime example is +size lor....
hey let's not forget, outside look like sheep, inside is wolf ok? --> "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing"
the stereotypical librarian may not always be a bookworm, she eats worms in her bedroom and wears leather n into BDSM!
so thomas, if u r angel..... ahem... i lose to u...
errr, good boy don't know what is leather and BDSM one lah, ehem..
which btw, BDSM means Bad-gurl Da Sexy Miu? wink wink nudge nudge
isn't it call - Boi-Boi Dancer Sexy Mok?
nudge nudge pheewit.. rm10-00
Miu: I'm actually younger than I look, I don't think I need viagra yet=.="
Thomas: good girls or bad girls doesn't really matter to me, I'm like an all purpose flour =P
hurley need u intro some good girls n guys to us!
ur topic Emotiones>Desires>Weakness
cg: I think you got the correct person!
Jun: maybe...you are not wrong and I am not right. Anyway, I forgot what happened. =P
miu: like? kinda...I love understanding more about unique people, unique things and unique situations. =)
the emo girl pls respond!